The Dialogue Between Blacks and Whites

Some people think that black and white people need to enter a dialogue regarding the relations between the two. I’m sure people believe this is a wonderful idea that would lead to better understanding between the two races. That is a noble sentiment. But what else can be said by black people to whites and vice versa that hasn’t been said or heard by the two races for the past two hundred years.The very moment the children of Africa set foot on the continent of North America they were considered the lesser of white people. The enslavement of black people allowed white people to consider Africans slightly more intelligent beast of burden. Christians would argue that black people had no soul so they deserved to serve whites. Or Christians would claim that Africans were the descendants of Able who killed his brother Cain in the story from the book of Genesis in the bible.
After slavery white people were free to mistreat black people in ways that today would have the organization People for the Ethical Treatment for Animals (PETA) all up in their ass if they were caught treating a dog that way. Black people had to fight for the right to sit where they wanted on a bus. Black people had to fight for the right to drink from any water fountain. Black people had to fight for the right to use any restroom. Black people had to fight for the right to vote. Black people had to fight for the same rights white people enjoy. Black people had to fight for educational opportunities. Black people had to fight for job opportunities.
One should take note that black people had to fight white people for each and every step of progress made in our long and arduous transition from slavery to equality. The majority of white people resisted each one of these steps. White people never said black people should share everything we have. White people saw black freedom fighters as trouble makers attacking their lifestyle. With each and every fight that gave black people a little more of their humanity back there were plenty of white people who felt like their way of life was in jeopardy. White people felt, feel, and will always feel that black people do not deserve to share in the same opportunities that white people take for granted.
Like a number of animals the human is social. Most people need to belong to some organization or group consisting of other people. As a member of the group the human is prone to protect their group from attack by members of other groups. Black people and white people come from two very distinct and different groups. With white people’s perception that their way of life is under attack and the fact that the people from a different clan, the black people, are taking away too much of their privilege it isn’t too farfetched to see that white people would resist and even counter black people’s endeavor for equality with their own endeavor to preserve inequality. The two struggles of black and white people are contradictory.
America has always been perceived as society dominated by white people. The vast majority of leading American governmental, educational, corporate, and religious institutions are controlled by white people or minorities that have accepted white culture, values, and principles as if it was their very own. These assimilated agents of white people, often referred to as toms, feel that they are valued participants of the white clan and its culture. However, let a critical or emergency situation develop with enough pressure and the tom will find themselves rejected by their adopted culture. OJ Simpson and Kobe Bryant are just a couple examples of this phenomenon.
White people want to maintain their advantage inside the culture they dominate. Black people want true equality inside the culture white dominate. This has been a centuries long struggle. But now, after years of struggle, black and white people are ready to come together in a dialogue to put aside their differences in favor of a common goal. Yes this is a wonderful idea and a lovely thought. But it will not happen. The single minded goal of black people, minus the assimilated agents of white culture, runs true opposite of the goal of white people to maintain their advantage for their race.
What new thing can white people say to make blacks give up their struggling for equality in America? What new thing can black people say to make white people truly want to see black people as equals and truly respect our African culture? A good guess for both questions would be a resounding nothing. Our struggle for equality will continue. Their struggle for dominance will continue. Come together in a dialogue? Don’t waste our or your time.

You talk about white people as if they all meet together at secret locations or send out a mass white people email and conspire together to down black people. Which white people are doing all this plotting and planning. My family is Italian but have never been invited to such meetings etc. It’s amazing how it’s almost always omitted that there were white people who helped slaves hide and escape risking their own lives cause they knew that the racist white people were wrong. I’ve lived most of my existence within the black community for lack of a better way of putting it and I can you that you can’t fight racism by being a racist. How do u even determine who is white (if you’re only going by skin color) cause there are Hispanics and middle easterners that can look like white people? Horrible things have happened at the hands of some white people but not all. My grandfather wS put in a concentration camp and burned alive cause he wasn’t the right kind of white person. Do I blame and hate all Germans? No cause not all Germans had anything to do with that. Hispanics held slaves so why aren’t they addressed in the same manner? None of can move forward in progress if we all linger in blame and hate. The people who held slaves are dead. In modern times address the person who is being a racist not the whole people of which many are your supporters anyways. People complain about racism but then tell their kids you better not ever bring home that white girl that Hispanic boy etc. Hypocrite! You lose the righteousness of your claim when become talk and act like those you complain about. If u see human beings as human beings then u wake up and see the world is your oyster and all beings in it. You can’t fight racism by being a racist. You’re suppose to find your soul mate not your color mate. If u believe in god I doubt he blesses self segregation.
Thanks for the feedback Marisa,
But I think you’re reply is a bit off the mark. If you think that I’m racist against all white people then you’re woefully mistaken. But then again, you are a lot like the majority of people who visit my blog. You think that any negative comment about the predominant culture that pretends to be racially generic but is overwhelmingly geared towards white people is a knock on all white people. You claim that you’ve lived in the black community because of your own personal financial troubles. If so then I think you would be more sympathetic to the plight of the black community. Instead, you’re here to defend some faux insult to all white people. If I have insulted all white people then trust me, it wasn’t intentional. But what I do want people to note is how white people, like you, would rather focus their attention on the perception of insults to white people’s honor instead of the very real economic plight of the black community. You can’t fight racism by being racist. That’s true. But you can’t fight racism by pretending it doesn’t exists or any attention given racism is in itself racist. God may not bless self segregation, but judging by the economic disparity that seems to fall along racial lines, if he has a hand in any of this he seems to be blessing the beneficiaries of white people’s racism. People who are visibly white, meaning when we look at them we believe that they are white, have a distinct advantage over people who are visibly black or dark.
Peace
Thank u so much for your reply but u too don’t know my full opinion on this subject only because there’s not enough space to explain my full opinion. I completely agree with u that there are huge differences in the economics. I was deeply deeply affected at a young age by the images,deeds and words I saw during civil rights. I thought to myself why are these white cops knocking down this woman who was coming back with groceries and kicking her? I cry to this day at the telling of the story. I’m sorry if I sounded as if I was defending white people. My mother thought that was funny as I am usually very much against those in the white community that still practice racism in any form and am quick to point it out. Financially my family is middle class so personally I like who I like regardless of finances. I believe it’s racism that’s keeping president Obama from doing all he could. There is racism out there for sure but it’s not one group that holds all the racist cards. You’re concerned with one group and regardless if I agree with u,which u now know I do, my point is to be concerned for all peoples that experience racism, poverty etc. I want to address all people regardless of color on their practice of racism. It’s wrong across the board no matter whose doing it. Economically speaking, maybe the black community has a higher rate of poor and unemployed. I agree with all u had to say but you can’t dismiss the individual reasons why some people are in the economic situation they’re in. It’s not just racism. There’s laziness, drug and alcohol dependence etc. and yes there are the racists. My point was that you can’t just say it’s ALL because of one thing and one people. Just so we’re clear I am nor have I ever been a fan of many white people. These are the same folks that put my grandparents in an oven on Auschwicz and hung Italians yes in the united states because lily white people do not see all white people the same.